Before We Were Innocent

Reader's Guide
Before We Were Innocent by Ella Berman
Discussion Questions:


1.   Bess and Joni are vilified by the international media after Evangeline’s death in 2008. Do you think the same thing would happen today?

2.   After Bess’s and Joni’s reputations are ripped to shreds, they’re expected to know how to navigate their new infamy. How successful are they each at coping with it? And what choices would you have made in their position?

3.   What do Bess, Joni, and Evangeline see in one another when they meet as teenagers? What were you looking for in your own best friends at that age?

4.   Bess still blames herself for what happened to Evangeline in Greece. Do you view her death as a senseless accident or an inevitable outcome of their collective frustration that summer?

5.   Why do you think Bess agrees to help Joni when she comes back to her in 2018? Why does Bess find her old friend so hard to resist?

6.   After Bess returns from Greece, her relationship with her family deteriorates. What could they have done differently to stop this from
happening?

7.   Bess still fantasizes about her stolen future with Theo. What do you think he represents for her? And what do you think the future would have held for them if Evangeline hadn’t died that night?

8.   Toward the end of the book, Joni attributes her manipulative behavior to her past trauma. Do you accept this as a justifiable defense for how she acts toward Bess? Should our present transgressions be forgiven because of our past?

9.   At one point, Bess asserts that “trusting someone is a choice.” Do you believe this is true? And why do you think Joni finds it so hard to tell Bess the truth about Willa from the start?

10. The book examines the thousands of choices we make every day—good and bad, infinitesimal and life-altering. Joni wants Bess to be fearless in her choices. Do you think Bess achieves this by the end of the book?